@iAmMissJasmine@luxemiaa This is what I did as well. I was in the middle of boards so I waited until about 9 months to make all the changes. I don’t want any attachment to that man.
@luxemiaa This don’t make a lick of sense.I was married 10 years we also have a child and changed mine as soon as I had my NP license. I don’t want to die with that 🥷 name on my grave or funeral program. Absolutely the fuck not. It really ain’t difficult. It’s annoying.
One of the hardest things a mother carries is the guilt of choosing the wrong father for her child. You do everything you can to give them love and stability, but sometimes you still wish they had the dad they deserved.
Respectfully, I do not go above and beyond for people like I use to anymore. I meet you as far as you meet me. I speak to you as much as you speak to me. I include you as much as you include me.
IMAGINE losing a woman who doesn’t sleep around, doesn’t go out often, doesn’t play games, knows what she wants, works hard for what she has, communicates clearly, knows her worth, and only wants you. Embarrassing.
Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. And eventually, the bill comes due.