i am begging some of you to become ok with hearing not-so-great-things about yourself. especially if it is coming from a loved one that historically respects your agency. chances are you unknowingly crossed a boundary & someone is trying to tell you in a respectful way.
@Hauwa_L sometimes what we call love is just us trying to feel worthy. we over give, overstay, overbend, not because it’s love, but because we don’t think we’ll be chosen if we don’t.
Sadly u can’t confront anyone about anything in any way and have it lead to a productive outcome anymore. It doesn’t matter how civil and polite u go about it. People can’t handle being challenged irl anymore. They recoil and implode. An angry email has a better chance.
@Thebiglade Long times spent with another should never end in anger. Humanity hasn’t figured out how to do hard things without having to be angry first. Hope this changes.
baby the Africans will have 6 people working on 6 heads. You ask them how long the wait? Baby 10 minutes!!!! they got reinforcements coming in. 😭😭4 more people otw.
Personally, I think we should be okay with having a beautiful conversation with a stranger & leaving it at that. Exchanging contacts is not always necessary. I think one of the beautiful things in life is being able to remember a good conversation with a random person & move on.