A woman who dances seductively with another man in the presence or absence of her husband, is a woman who doesn't respect her husband.
Worse is doing it publicly in the full glare of the cameras and her husband.
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If you visit your girlfriend's parents for the first time, and her mother sits with both of you throughout the meeting, please pay attention to what she says and how she reacts to what you or her father say.
Ordinarily, she's not expected to be present throughout the meeting.
She's supposed to be in the kitchen or in the room with your girlfriend.
They would only welcome you and make you feel comfortable.
And then, wait until her father calls for them to come join the two of you.
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If you're the one buying pad, airtime, food, gas or paying rent for your girlfriend.
Please dump her and go look for another one.
She's a liability to you and may continue to be a liability if you marry her.
But I know that you'll not listen because her toto is "tight".
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Being a parent, husband and wife, is one of the most amazing blessings that God gave to mankind.
But as much as it's a blessing, it comes with enormous responsibilities.
Raising and taking care of other humans from cradle till they become adults and independent, is a call of nature.
And God never wished for one human to do it alone.
God's plans were for us to do so under the umbrella of marriage, and raise your children as man and wife.
It's a journey, and a daunting one.
For you young and single people, you must learn that to make the journey worthwhile, you should choose right and lay a good foundation for your relationship.
Marriage is a school that you should never graduate from until you die.
In the conventional schools, we take the lessons before getting the certificates.
In marriage, you get the certificate before taking the lessons.
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Dear young men,
From the day you decide to ask a lady to be your girlfriend until she accepts, please ensure it does not take more than one month.
If after one month she is still telling you, "I am still thinking about it," please go and look for another girlfriend.
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If your mother is a divorcee, she's mostly not the best person to give you marriage advice.
If your father is a divorcee, he's still very qualified to give you marriage advise.
Women build homes, men lead homes.
If a builder fails, the leader will have no home to lead.
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Be your husband's cheerleader.
Not his enabler.
If you enable him, he will resent you but pretends that he loves you.
If you're his cheerleader, he will be motivated by your praises, honor, submission & respect.
And he will strive hard not to fail you and the children.
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If you marry a good wife, your life will be better with her.
If you marry a bad wife, your life will be better without her.
You can only know that you married a good wife by how she treats you and the children.
Not by how she treats the children alone.
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It's why a woman, after knowing that another woman had divorced her husband because of extreme domestic violence, would still go ahead to get married to the divorced man.
And a man, after knowing that a man had divorced his wife because she was unfaithful, won't marry the divorced woman.
For women, it's all about their feelings. They take the lessons before weighing the risks.
For men, it's all about their minds and other people's experiences. They weigh the risks before taking the lessons.
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Dear single women,
If you don't want to come online in the future to say:
"Marriage is not an achievement"
Stop cheating.
Stop begging men for money.
Stop doing hookups.
Stop dating criminals.
Stop going to every religious house & worshipping your religious leaders.
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