I met a lady yesterday who is actively ready to mingle.
I was innocently talking about values to look out for and how to manage men by knowing that men won’t always act like women.
I asked her if she’s open to dating and marrying from Nigeria and she said yes.
But she is not ready to bring any guy on her COS.
I said “Ok… that is your choice.
But, it is a poor choice.”
I noticed she’s so focused on the COS of a thing than actually finding a man with value and a man that can genuinely love her.
What if he doesn’t need your COS? You will blindly accept him??
Some ladies focus on the wrong thing., many men who marry nurses, are here on their wives’ COS and the world did not end.
Many women are here today because the men married them from Nigeria and filled for them.
Your goal is to choose the best among the best and commit totally to the relationship.
Little did women know that a man doing “ok” in Nigeria is also skeptical about marrying a lady from abroad where “the law favours women”
In essence, find yourself a good man or woman, and act right according to your circumstances.
If you calm down, you will see for yourself if a man wants you for the benefit of japa or genuinely wants to marry you.
Same thing applies to those student nurses who can’t date a student like them in the uk.
You know you have high chances of getting a sponsorship after school.
If his love is genuine what’s stopping you from enjoying every bit of it?? And also supporting his stay? Is it not a win win for both parties?
One of the reasons relationships don’t last anymore is because everyone goes in for what they can get and not to serve the other person.
Take it or leave it, relationships with a lot of sacrifices tend to stand the test of time.
Change your mentality.
You do know none of this shit really matters, 😉we can’t take it with us. I lost my Grandfather last night, now he can go everywhere with me • https://t.co/jnbpt4Vpb3
What do people gain from trying to talk people down?
Especially the people they can’t really say they know?
How did this become such a heavy trend?
Una no dey reason am?
God made you a woman for a reason
God made you a man for a reason
God didn’t put you in a foreign body
Also
Men shouldn’t be able to compete in women divisions
My opinion
It's fine if you're not going out to protest, but I don't think anybody needs your shalaye, self-righteous, or discouraging remarks. Just shut the fuck up and stay in your house.
History will not be kind to me if honesty doesn’t reign; I have no hopes for historical eventualities…
i am with my people because i don’t have a better choice otherwise, many Nigerians are not worth the sacrifice.
People we no get mouth dey abuse people we get mouth because they speak up.
Their parents dey house all these years wey government dey abuse their generations but Tegwolo self go say elder dey market when dem born am.
Make we dey look… you can’t “ savage “ away your reality.