Padahal ADHD genuiely ruining your life. Saya skripsian mundur setahun dan lulus juga jadinya paling telat seangkatan gara-gara ADHD. Bahkan ketambahan diagnosis Depresi gara-gara ADHD but no one ever understand that.
Oh i would never hate on kids mau sebadung apapun mereka. I will always blame the adults around them for that karena emang mereka cuma ngikutin apa yang mereka liat dan denger ajee
sedih banget lihat orang dewasa nyaman dehumanizing anak kecil karena nangis, rewel, atau tantrum. so many of us grew up carrying trauma karena dulu ada orang dewasa yang gak cukup sabar memahami bahwa we were literally just children.
anak kecil belum ngerti cara regulate emosinya, tubuh dan otaknya masih berkembang. tapi mereka dihukum karena gagal melakukan sesuatu yang emang belum mampu mereka lakukan.
and the saddest part is, some children spend the rest of their lives healing from how adults treated them for simply behaving like children.
Padahal anak kecil jauh lebih marginalized daripada... kelompok lainnya. Apalagi kalau misal disabled, queer, and minor. Kurang marginalized apa mereka?
Anak kecil kabur dari rumah karena abuse dibalikin ke ortunya, kurang marginalized apa mereka?
Udahan yuk main selective empathy-nya temen-temen. The way some of you talked about children is genuinely concerning. No, I’m not directing my statement toward women and how we should have that motherhood instinct bs. I’m talking about a bunch of adults with terrible regulation.