The trick to enjoying fandom is to focus on the fan content (especially fanarts, for me) and ignore everyone else except your few chosen people bcs it's surprising how many dumb and annoying people there are out there
She cares so much - for her friends, for her juniors, she gets upset whenever she sees someone get hurt or uncomfortable, especially if she feels like she is at fault. She really just wants the best for every uma ever, no matter how much anguish this causes her 💔