y’all think being a provider starts & ends with money 😭 baby money can pay bills, it cannot provide emotional safety, leadership, consideration or consistency.
You do not need to be fully healed to enter a relationship. But you do need enough awareness to recognise when your wounds are beginning to govern how you treat someone else.
Black Americans are six times more likely to be victims of hate crimes than any other group. Anti-Blackness is what the world wants you to believe antisemitism is!
can’t go on a solo trip, can’t have alone time, can’t hang out with your friends, can’t go to work in peace, gotta stay on the phone 24 hours a day, gotta be stuck up each other’s ass all day, everyday. y’all are like puppy dogs. needy as hell! give people time to miss you!
People just need to be honest and communicative about their desires; others need to be open to receiving that honesty and communication. A lot of trouble could be avoided.
@WooDaBaddie Love in its purest form is definitely illogical. Love you either stand the fire and become baptized by its purity, or you shrivel to the experience of your fear. How you experience love is how you choose to engage with it...
@BrianLR19728 Absolutely, but they are not interchangeable. Desire makes someone want you; value makes someone respect you, consider your needs, and remain accountable to you. A healthy relationship needs both, because being wanted is not the same as being genuinely cared for.
YES and this is why when people wonder how saturnians detach so quickly and stand on business, it’s because we know what happens when we don’t run a strict program