the cost of over-hypothesizing is the pain of missed opportunity.
options are unlimited, but our time is not.
life starts when we shift from “what if” to “what is”.
bullseye.
college isn’t just about a piece of paper — if you play it right, it’s a cheat code for socioeconomic mobility.
the wrong way: go to college with no plan, get a random degree, and keep to yourself.
the right way: build relationships, lean in to new experiences, and ultimately — grow up.
same people preaching "don't go to college" have 529 savings plans;
they will make sure their kids go to college,
and you won't.
it's twisted.
If you’re a Black man, go to college.
If you are fortunate to get into a reputable university, don’t fade the opportunity.
Yes I know the education system is bullshit but you don’t realize how much it elevates you if you go to the right one.
A lot of these new money college dropouts DID have a family with a network and don’t have stereotypes hanging from their head.
I’ve been able to get connected to very wealthy people just off of the strength of being brought up from the same alumnus system they went through.
I made sure to connect and get close with every kid on my campus regardless of race.
Some of those kids became millionaires and bought my services and connected me to others when I wanted to build bigger things.
When I get introduced to guys who are old money, they always ask “what college did you go to?”
And when I say it, they immediately open up and say they have a close friend who went there.
Trust barriers fade and the world becomes your oyster.
Who you become associated with changes your status in society.
as a solo, semi-technical founder, Cursor became my secret weapon
early on I’d just say “fix my code” — pure chaos
now I:
→ explain the bug in excruciating detail
→ define my ideal outcome
→ tell Cursor: reiterate the goal, propose a fix, ask clarifying q’s — and *don’t change anything until I approve*
this turned months of dev time into hours and thousands saved in bad freelancer headaches
what a time to be alive
it took me way too long to understand this:
virtual meetings are for status updates.
real deals get done face to face.
if I pull up to your city, it’s not just for vibes — I’m closing.
it’s hard to buy from strangers.
it’s easy to buy from someone you’ve broken bread with.
get off Zoom and pound the pavement.
just stepped off the mat after my first jiu-jitsu class in a month
as a founder it’s easy to put fitness on the back burner — and hesitate to return — but the key is to always come back
showing up is really the hardest part
after that, momentum kicks in to push you forward.