Akhona

Public relations graduate,
Humble person,
do what you have to do, to be the best at what you want to become

[𝗪𝗲𝗹𝗹𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗖𝗵𝗲𝗺𝗶𝘀𝘁 @GodswillChemist]

Simple natural habits can support your body in powerful ways.

[iti malias @itimaliasof]

esse vídeo acabou de salvar o meu dia klkkkkkk

[Thee Comfort O.🌸 @comfortomovre]

10 difficult but necessary conversations to have with your partner before 2026.

(I do these often with my clients in counselling and it always yields rewarding results):

[Interesting things @awkwardgoogle]

We've been wrapping gifts wrong our whole lives - in Japan, they only need one piece of tape 🎁🤯
https://t.co/go9HvOyWlz

[Wellness wins @Bro_Code_x]

Practical life hacks i wish I knew sooner 💯 😍 👇

[Genuis Health 💊 @GenuisHealth]

24 years working as a celebrity plastic Surgeon, yet women NEVER believes me when I say these things ..👇

[Zamawosiyana Zama @zamawosiyanaza1]

@Patriot_S_A Uyingozi umuntu ohlezi ecabanga ukuthi uyathakathwa.

[K0k_1a @MUST_BE_KOKETSO]

Devastated father takes his own life after DNA test reveals both children aren’t his💔

[LadyM1306!🇳🇬 @LadyM1306]

They saw him cross over to the yellow line and the phone was ready to record … humanity in South Africa is dead.

They could have saved this man cause they saw what his intentions were.

[The Biblical Man @Biblicalman]

My wife stopped fighting with me in 2018.

I thought we'd finally figured it out.

No more arguments about the dishes. No more sighing when I forgot something. No more asking me to help with things I should've noticed myself.

Peace.

That's what I called it.

For two years I lived in that silence thinking we'd reached some kind of marital maturity.

Then one night—11 PM, night before Thanksgiving—I found her crying in the kitchen.

Making pie crust from scratch because my mother had made a comment the year before about store-bought being "fine, I guess."

I asked what was wrong.

She looked at me like I was a stranger.

"Nothing."

That's when I realized:

She hadn't stopped fighting because things were better.

She stopped fighting because she stopped believing I would ever change.

The silence wasn't peace.

It was resignation.

She'd built her entire life around my absence…while I was still in the house. Eating the food she cooked. Sleeping in the bed she made. Parenting the kids she was raising.

And I called it partnership because I brought home a paycheck.

Most men don't have a marriage problem.

They have an absence problem.

Their wives stopped asking because asking hurt too much.

So they carry it alone. The meals. The schedules. The mental load. The holidays.

And we sit on the couch checking our phones thinking "at least we're not fighting anymore."

Brother, fighting would be better.

Anger means she still believes you could change.

Silence means she made peace with the fact that you won't.

Tomorrow is Thanksgiving.

Your wife is going to wake up before you. Start cooking while you sleep. Manage the chaos while you watch the parade. Clean up while you digest.

Unless you don't let her.

I wrote the protocol for coming home to a marriage you've been absent from.

The 5 stages of wifely resignation.
Why "I'll do better" doesn't work anymore.
The 30-day silent rebuilding system.
The conversation she needs to hear.

It's called "When She Stopped Asking."

Link below if you want it.

But whether you buy it or not—wake up first tomorrow.

[Grace Gym🏋️‍♀️ @GraceGym_]

Things everyone who wear shoes should know 👠

[Sposhkay @Sposhkay1]

I called my biological mom today wathi ngikhuluma nobani 😂✋🏾.. eyi loya sisi akazingeni bandla 😂😂😂

[Sowetan @Sowetan1981]

A woman who was reported missing while on her way to a midnight prayer at a church in Newtown, Joburg, has been found alive. @MimieShana https://t.co/YwwXP8vxJS

[SABC News @SABCNews]

[WATCH] The family of missing Mbalenhle Nkomo is pleading for help and any information that could lead to her whereabouts. Her husband, Sandile Nkomo, says she was last seen on Friday heading to an all-night prayer at Rock of Victory Ministries in Johannesburg. Her car was later picked up by freeway cameras en route to Ladysmith, KZN.

[Akhona @akhonasebotha]

Vuyi is that friend who will fight any battle for her friends even when you, as her friend, are wrong... she came to a reunion and fought wrong and alone battles. #MommyClubShowmaxS3

[ChrisExcel @ChrisExcel102]

Yaz Mfwthu

Once in a while even if you no longer dating.

It’s very important to Take your phone text or call your baby mama

And say “Thank u for raising my child”

Yebo bona bayanya at times

But these women are doing an incredible job with our kids while we busy hustling

[The Driven Man @Thedrivenman]

9 Things you Must say to your kids 💯

[germany @__lueza]

Hi guys , I have seen the power of social media & I believe you guys can help me. My aunt has been robbed off of her entire pension fund post retirement. Her department & herself have submitted all the necessary paperwork to GEPF & all of her money is missing with no valid reason

[Gontse Chauke 📝 @_BlackZA]

She has abused it and the addiction is uncontrollable 😂😂😭😭💔
https://t.co/F813iU0Z7I

[Kim Heller @kimheller3]

This is Christoffel Stoman

He ran over the little boy, breaking both of his legs on Friday last week after accusing him of stealing an orange from his farm - South Africa 💔

Source: News24