I donβt think anyone should be given a style/fashion icon title if you consistently pull pieces that look good in general but not on you. Having access to certain looks is one thing but if you look goofy and ill fitted, what is even the point??
watering urself down in certain spaces as a means of self preservation or gatekeeping lowkey just does you a disservice in the long run
sometimes I feel like Iβve forgotten how to be me to the fullest extent bc Iβm accustomed to shapeshifting when Iβm not in my preferred company
idk if Iβll ever outgrow putting ppl on energetic punishmentβ¦ like that was a lil crazy u gotta stay way over there, sometimes just for now, sometimes forever
The world right now just feels like a test of how desperate you are π€£ job markets, friendships, loveβ¦ everything, βare you willing to tolerate anything to maintain this?β