FOR YOUR HEART’S LIBRARY
- Most things we criticise are because of envy within.
- No one owes you anything. Provided you have your head, and your hands; use the grace of God to build something meaningful.
- Most times we allow the spirit of covetousness to eat into us, whilst we blame others for our current state.
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Women are everywhere until it's time to find a wife. Na there you go know say "there are many fishes in the river" is false.
"Men are very cheap" until it's time you want him to commit. If you want to sleep with men, it's very very easy, but when you expect them to commit, take you seriously or marry you, that's when you'd realize that men are really not cheap. They're only cheap because they love sex.
Above all, love God.
The greatest social trap is being useful without a cost. It leaves you open to exploitation. People will rely on you, summon you, and still undervalue you because you help without a cost. Value must be paired with a cost in order to leverage it for power, respect or authority
The most ungrateful children are often the ones who had the most devoted parents. And I know that sounds harsh, but think about it when someone has always been there for you, always picked up the phone, no matter what showed up, sacrificed, your brain eventually stops treating that as something special. It basically becomes your baseline. You get used to what becomes consistently available. That is the adaptation effect. You don't wake up everyday thinking, I'm so lucky to have this because you have made that your normal. And that is the thing about unconditional love. You start confusing consistency with entitlement and the things your parents sacrificed for become the things you expect and the things that they did out of love become the bare minimum. That's why sometimes it takes distance growing up or even losing someone to understand the worth of what you had.
The devil gives you everything fast and takes your peace as a processing fee. You ever notice how the wrong thing always shows up quicker than the right thing? The shortcut appears right before the process finishes, the temptation arrives the same week you committed to change, the easy money surfaces right when you decided to build something legitimate, and it always looks like a blessing until you check the receipt. Everything the enemy offers comes with speed, fast money, fast pleasure, fast relief. But read the fine print. The cost is never upfront, it's collected on the back end that is the processing fee posted. And by the time you realize what you paid, your peace is already gone. God's timeline feels slow because he's building something that lasts. The enemy's timeline feels fast because he's building something that collapses. The only way to tell the difference is to ask yourself, did this cost me my peace to obtain this, because anything that requires your peace as a payment was never meant for you. The promotion that came with the compromise, the relationship that moved fast but felt wrong in your spirit. The opportunity that required you to become someone you did not respect. Provision from God does not leave you anxious at midnight, it does not require you to hide if it came fast and your peace left with it you didn't receive a blessing, you accepted an invoice you haven't finished paying. Check the processing fee before you accept the offer.
Privacy is sexy. Look out there. Everybody is performing their perfectly curated lives. Reels, stories and all. But what's really attractive is living fully without performing for an audience. Keeping parts of your life just for you. Allowing ordinary experiences to feel extraordinary because they are fully yours. In a world obsessed with visibility, choosing to exist without explanation is rare.
This is pure fact.
Women still don't understand the dynamics of nature and relationship between men and woman and the natural instincts that differentiate us.
And after sex, they will understand why people say men are the Prize while women are the price.
We hustle for women until u get the sex
Women hustle to keep us after sex.
Yes men are cheap according to women cos they are sexy and men are always horny so they can easily lead any man to bed if they want.
But the state of the mind of a man charges after the sex.
Infact its even worst now because sex is so common these days as u can get it either by lamba, smartness, cash, favors and other means both from singles and from even married women.
So, it has lost Value as too much availability and affordability makes every commodity loss value.
But scarcity makes every item or goods become expensive and looks valuable.
In our world today, sex is very affordable and at any junction.
You giving me sex is not something I will cherish a lot as I can get it else where.
But giving me peace, love, care , mental stability, invest in me too and offer me enough time and comfort will make see value in you to want to invest my life in you and with u
VALUE YOURSELF WITHOUT APOLOGIES:
1. Ignored - Stop chasing
2. Not invited - Don't show up.
3. Disrespected - Walk away.
4. Used - Set boundaries.
5. Taken for granted - Give less.
6. Lied to - Trust actions.
7. Controlled - Take your power back.
8. Drained - Choose distance.
9. Underestimated - Let results talk.
Apostle Joshua Selman Speaks:
Dreams are prophecies looking for manifestation.. Pray against bad dreams as soon as you wake up. Change them through prayers. What ever you don't do anything about will happen. Silence is equal to giving approval for them to happen whether you know it or not.
Pray.
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Underrated life skill:
Knowing when someone's advice is about them, not you. Your divorced friend warning you about marriage. Your broke uncle's investment tips. Your unhappy parent's career guidance. They're not giving advice. They're confessing regrets. Once you recognize projection, you stop taking direction from people who are lost. Listen for wisdom, not wounds. Most advice is just someone else's therapy session.
11 UNAVOIDABLE RULES OF LIFE:
1. Joy comes from being present.
2. Guidance comes form intuition.
3. Peace comes from wanting less.
4. Fulfillment comes from service.
5. Abundance comes from giving.
6. Growth comes from good habits.
7. Happiness comes form letting go.
8. Connection comes from mutual care.
9. Alignment comes from slowing down.
10. Healing comes form feeling your truth.
11. Wisdom comes from embracing change.