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[Layton Elyas @origina1ange1]

I’ve said this before, but being a genuinely kind and authentic person who expresses your vulnerabilities and/or doesn’t follow certain unspoken “social hierarchy” rules will put a major target on your back by those who see those traits as “performative” or even manipulative/deceitful.

People who consistently view others that way are telling on themselves. How we perceive the world (including other people) mirrors the conditions of our own inner world.

A healthy person does not interpret basic consideration as some kind of control tactic. A grounded person does not consistently assume the worst of others.

Doing so will either 1. eventually create a self-fulfilling prophecy, or, 2. result in the cognitive distortion of “confirmation bias,” where the other person cannot “win” no matter what they do because you have already decided their intentions or motivations for them.

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@Byron_Wan People who haven’t been to HK before probably wouldn’t understand how racist HK are towards people from mainland China. LMAO

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@Dearme2_ Travel if not possible go for a long walk

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@TyrantOppressor Thanks all the Indians taking all the hate away

[jack @jack]

End the CCP