Always remember...
Men are the PRIZE.
And women are the PRICE.
There is nowhere a woman is mandated to spend any money during her wedding.
But the man must spend to marry his wife.
She positions herself and wins the PRIZE through femininity, respect and faithfulness.
While he shows love through leadership, protection and provision (PRICE).
That is why the bride is always the happiest during wedding ceremony.
Because she is the winner of the PRIZE.
Good morning.
You're free to argue this, but let me say it.
The best marriage to have as a man is a marriage where:
1. You're more educated and enlightened than your wife.
2. You're richer than your wife.
3. You're older than your wife.
4. Your wife is not from a family that depends on you for their survival.
5. Your wife is not religious and seldom keeps friends.
6. Your wife is a housewife or works where she still has time to be a present mother.
7. Your wife is from a stable home where the parents are still together, but it's not her mother that is the main provider or the one that calls the shot.
8. All her sisters (especially elder sisters) are married.
9. She spends time to teach the children and takes pride in their achievement.
10. She doesn't deprive you of sex and makes sure that her vagina and home is always clean for you.
11. She doesn't have an ex or she doesn't keep in touch with her exes.
12. She doesn't enable you as her husband and wishes to push you further than she has gotten to.
13. She puts you on your toes and you cannot afford to fail her because of the value that she brings to your life.
14. She knows that you have cheated on her, but turns a blind eye, as long as you're not rubbing it on her face and you put your family first in all thy doings.
15. She knows who you are, but will never use your secrets against you. And even if the marriage doesn't work out, she'll always speak good of you because she believes and trusts that you'll always speak good of her.
End.
This is for the husband who leaves home before sunrise…
The wife stretching the small family budget until next payday…
The single parent pretending everything is okay…while carrying alone the burden meant for two people.
The father who quietly skips buying something for himself so the children won’t go without…
The mother who eats last after making sure everyone else has eaten.
I hope one day your children will understand what those ordinary days really cost you.
The sleepless nights.
The silent worries.
The sacrifices nobody applauded.
Please don’t measure your worth only by what is still missing.
Sometimes, the greatest gift you give your family isn’t a bigger house or a newer car.
It’s the certainty that, no matter how hard life became…You never stopped showing up.
If that’s you today, keep going.
Your family may not fully understand your sacrifices now.
One day, they will.
See you on top ❤️
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