You know what the saddest part is? Itโs the lack of accountability.
Itโs a norm among damaged people. They make reckless decisions. They like appearing rich despite not having the money. How do you sell a house for 11 million in Asaba?
This is a city where the real estate market is going crazily high. Rents are going up daily!
Thatโs why, as a man, you must be particular about the type of the man you marry. She doesn't have to be an entrepreneur, she must be entrepreneurial.
He must set up wealth-protection tools to protect the wealth you have gathered.
Stop telling people to "follow your passion."
Passion doesn't pay bills.
Skills do.
Build valuable skills first. Passion often follows competence, not the other way around.
The biggest lie motivational speakers ever sold is:
"If you want it badly enough, you'll get it."
No.
Some people want it just as badly but never recover from one wrong decision, one bad economy, or one unlucky break.
Discipline matters. Luck matters too.
I love my family so much but now I am understanding why people say you have to keep an healthy distance...
I am living that reality now.
When they are close, they see you too much and they lose the respect you deserve and pry into your affairs without any caution.