if youโre in a relationship you shouldnโt be talking to:
- your ex
- someone who clearly likes you
- someone who used to like you
- someone you used to like
- someone whoโs waiting their turn
- someone who disrespects your partner
this isnโt being toxic, this is called basic respect.
Nobody talks about the stage of grief where you can't even talk about it to anyone anymore because everyone expects you to be getting over it but it still runs through your mind everyday.
If you ended a relationship and realized they didn't go looking for another person, didn't go out partying, but instead started running, training, taking care of themselves, and distancing themselves from everyone so they could overcome themselves... I'm sorry to tell you that they truly did love you.
And I'm sorry to say you let a very good person slip away, one you won't find again... not even in another lifetime.