but I also think you’re a shitty person if you forget about your friend because they had a baby. New moms go through so much and to not have any of their “friends” to support them is shitty. If you’re really their friend you’d be there even if you don’t like kids or whatever
@KingHaazel i agree, but also they should be like “omg i can’t wait to meet the baby” “we’re gonna do so much fun stuff” “i’m gonna spoil him/her” and then just ghost you as soon as the baby comes. you don’t owe me shit, but don’t show fake love when i’m pregnant. 🤷🏽♀️
@DrCalumMiller And do fathers feel the same way when they abandon their pregnant girlfriends or those with children already born and do not want to take care of them or provide for their support?
@DrCalumMiller Men want children, the way children want a puppy- None of the responsibility. This is why so many men decide they don’t want children— AFTER they’re born.
Nobody talks about how people who grew up in broken and dysfunctional homes don’t have big dreams. They only dream of having a home no one can take away and a person who won’t abandon them.
i CANNOT fuck with people who do NOT understand it’s the PRINCIPLE of things. it’s not what you did. it’s how you did it. and what makes it worse is knowing if roles were reversed, you’d lose your mind