They shooting the messenger, but she ain’t wrong. Dating and sex were heavily demonized in a lot of our homes. We were told to stay away from boys and focus on school. The problem is that relationships are a skill set too and many Black women were prepared for careers but left to figure out dating, boundaries, and healthy partnership on our own.
They talk about black culture and how it’s ghetto and degenerate like they didn’t bring their children to watch ppl get tortured and killed for no reason other than their skin being a different color.
Last year kendrick pushed xenophobia at the Super Bowl. This year Benito pushed unity across the entire American continent. That’s the difference between a real activist and a bitter jealous hater.
By 25, you should hold yourself to such a high standard of self respect that you’re able to comfortably dissociate with anyone who cannot meet those standards.