tubuhmu yang kamu ajak berjuang setiap hari itu, tidak pantas untuk di sia-siakan orang lain.
jadi, jangan sampai salah menaruh hati lagi, pilihlah manusia yang memilihmu
Setuju ga guys ? Mau semarah atau secapek apapun, jangan pernah berhenti kasih kabar. Because communication is not about being in a good mood, it's about respect and care.
Kita boleh kecewa, boleh marah, bahkan boleh butuh waktu untuk menenangkan diri. Tapi jangan sampai orang yang kita sayang harus menebak-nebak keadaan kita. A mature relationship isn't about never fighting, it's about still choosing each other even in the middle of the fight. Jadi kalau lagi marah, bilang.
Kalau lagi butuh waktu sendiri, bilang. Karena silent treatment hurts more than honest words. Love is not only about saying "I love you", but also "I'm okay", "I'm home", and "I'll talk to you when I'm calmer."
cc:threadamericanomanukaa
My therapist once said "growth is realizing that someone's inconsistency is a sign to step back, not a challenge to prove your worth" and i think y'all need to engrave this into your soul.
If someone repeatedly shows a lack of empathy for your feelings, pay attention. You cannot love someone into treating you well, and ignoring that reality is often how unhealthy relationships begin.
you deserve someone who can't WAIT to talk to you, spend time with you, get to know you and fall in love with you. please stop settling for halfhearted, lukewarm, hesitant and indecisive. It's sooooo much better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you FEEL alone.