princess treatment isn't when he buys you expensive gifts. It's when he never lets you go to sleep upset, listens to you, is soft with you, respects you, and changes his actions when it hurts you.
the longer i go without something, the more i'm okay with never having it again. and once i detach from someone or something completely, reconnection with me becomes impossible because i know what it took for me to finally let go. once i'm done, i'm done.
I been shitted on, lied to, betrayed, disrespected, overlooked, and left to figure that shit out alone. Yet I still show up. Still pray. Still hustle. Still love. Some of y’all don’t even know how much pain a woman can carry and still look fine as hell doing it.
girl to girl: it's okay to be alone. it's okay to have a dry phone. it's okay to be celibate. it's okay to be selfish. it's okay to have high standards. your peace, your pace, your rules