This argument that someone can love you and cheat on you is a prime example of why love isn't enough. You need to respect and value and consider your partner. You need to have empathy and compassion and never want to hurt them. You need love as an action, not a concept
A ngga will destroy every ounce of trust you had in him, then get irritated because you question sht now. You wanted blind trust while constantly giving me reasons to open my mf eyes.
Loyalty should never require you to betray yourself. The moment you have to ignore disrespect, lies, and repeated red flags just to prove you’re “loyal,” you’re not being loyal anymore—you’re being used.
After certain things happen, you just don't feel the same about some people anymore. No matter who they are to you. It's not hatred. It's not even anger. It's just something shifts. You still talk. You still respond but the warmth isn't the same. The comfort isn't the same. The way you used to look at them, trust them, feel safe with them, it changes without asking your permission.
One of the best pieces of dating advice I ever got was that it’s better to find love while living rather than living to find love; basically meaning that you should invest more in the life you're living and all the things that make it awesome rather than focusing all your attentions on the pursuit of a relationship.