no woman wants to be mad all the time or be called toxic. y’all dudes have to realize that women react off the way you move. but stop being stuck in your ways! pointing out her every flaw! when you haven’t took a look in the mirror at yourself
I don't know who needs to see this, but raising your voice when you're desperately trying to defend yourself and raising your voice aggressively are not the same thing. And anyone who tries to invalidate your defense because of the volume of your voice is gaslighting you.
one of the main reasons i’m so gentle with myself is cause i believe i’ve already experienced enough hardship in my life. i’ve already been mishandled and undervalued by others and myself at times. so i deserve more patience, forgiveness, and consideration at this point.
I don’t work well w jealous and possessive people because I’m actually a free spirit and you can’t run me. Just be confident and secure in the fact I’ll never embarrass you.
Unhealed trauma will sometimes give you a high tolerance threshold to abusive behaviour. Just because you can endure it well doesn't mean you have to accept it.
someone invalidating your trauma says more about them than it does about you. it’s so harmful when people project how they process trauma onto you. it’s unfair, immature & i hope you internalize how unsafe it is to talk about certain things with this person. your trauma is valid.
Having a man that’s in the mood for u everyday. That wants to talk to u everyday no matter how busy he is. A man that craves ur energy. A man who cherishes ur friendship & advice . A man who desires ur presence. A man who provides & protects. A man who brings out ur soft side >
Never disrespect yourself by begging anybody for bare minimum. You will never have to ask the right person for attention, time, respect, loyalty, or love. Because you're worth it and you deserve it. If someone can't see the value in giving you that – don’t try to convince them.
girl, you deserve a man who doesn’t runaway. a man who stays. a man who is strong, the pillar. the rock you can hold on to. a man who betters you. a man who takes the lead. a man who pursues. a man who’s disciplined, eyes only for you. a man who your father entrusts too.
I love love. The butterflies, the late night phone calls, the long video calls, the flowers 💐 the morning texts, the fun dates, sending tweets and reels, but most of all I love getting to that point where I can truly let my guard down because finally, I feel safe with my person.
i love it when we can both be lovers and best friends, i like that clingy energy be goofy with me, obsess over me, be all over me, hold me, kiss me, annoy me, text me all day don't ever stop, i will never get tired of you, i will always be obsessed