The more self-regulated you become, the more you realize that communicating your feelings isn’t an emergency. You can sit with it. Sleep on it. Let the wave pass. You don’t have to rush into expression just because the emotion feels loud.1/2
the most interesting thing is when you can't solve a problem, and then one day you wake up and the solution just spawns in your head.
that's neuroplasticity in action, your brain quietly rewiring itself until the pieces finally click.
a maior lição que eu aprendi esse ano é que a gente
NUNCA, em hipótese alguma, deve esperar que as pessoas tenham a mesma consideração, e amor que a gente. tem por elas.
The older I get, the more I think consideration might be the purest form of love.
It’s thinking about how your actions will affect someone. Remembering their feelings before making a decision. Making room for them in the way you move through life.
In any kind of relationship, you can often measure how deeply someone cares by how much they consider you.
And maybe that’s why the opposite of love isn’t hatred. It’s indifference.