alexia 🌸

9.13.16 🤍 // v 💋// go to your room and don't come out

[alexia 🌸 @alexiah_99]

i literally can't take anymore. not tim curry bro

[DiscussingFilm @DiscussingFilm]

First look at the Lightning McQueen popcorn bucket and Piston Cup drink vessel for the 20th anniversary of ‘CARS’.

[alexis @thealexiskraft]

trying really hard to not be parasocial about hayden panettiere but my god, i am crashing out

[alexia 🌸 @alexiah_99]

sobbing. not hayden 💔

[alexia 🌸 @alexiah_99]

really struggling mentally

[alexia 🌸 @alexiah_99]

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[alexia 🌸 @alexiah_99]

españa!

[alexia 🌸 @alexiah_99]

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[alexia 🌸 @alexiah_99]

this really sucks

[🤠 @heavensbvnny]

as much as i desire a sexual relationship with a partner, i desire intimacy and romance so much more. Holding my hand in public, and looking at me and smiling when i speak. standing behind me with your hands around my waist, and bending down to tie my shoe when it comes unlaced. holding me when i’m scared. reciprocating my joy and excitement about something, no matter how little it may seem.

[Lewis Hamilton @LewisHamilton]

REMEMBER WHO YOU ARE

[alexia 🌸 @alexiah_99]

wow

[alexia 🌸 @alexiah_99]

charles deserves better

[alexia 🌸 @alexiah_99]

i hate you

[alexia 🌸 @alexiah_99]

being in a car accident...0/10 do not recommend. my body hurts so bad.

[alexia 🌸 @alexiah_99]

i think about our friendship sometimes... and how much i hate you now

[alexia 🌸 @alexiah_99]

let's go stars

[alexia 🌸 @alexiah_99]

i really need my car back

[Kia @xevekiah]

My girl best friend told her boyfriend something that lowkey changed how I see relationships.
She said, “I don’t want obedience. I want consideration. I shouldn’t have to beg you to think about how your actions affect me.”
She told him, “You’re allowed to have friends. You’re allowed to go out. You’re allowed to live your life. But if you constantly put yourself in situations that you know would hurt me, that’s not freedom. That’s you choosing yourself over us.”
Then she said something that hit:
“If I have to keep explaining why something disrespects me, it’s not confusion. It’s comfort. You’re comfortable knowing I’ll stay.”
And whew.
She wasn’t yelling. She wasn’t threatening to leave. She was calm. Grounded. Clear.
She told him, “I won’t control you. But I will control what I tolerate. And if I start feeling small in a relationship that’s supposed to feel safe, I’ll remove myself. Not to punish you. To protect me.”
That’s what emotional maturity sounds like.
Not “do what I say.”
But “I see the red flag. I told you it’s red. If you keep walking past it, I’m not dragging you back.”