Just gonna leave this right here for all the Christians who are placing unity / "love" as a higher Kingdom value than Truth. Sounds like taking sides to me.
"Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I have not come to bring peace, but a sword."
- Matthew 10:34
“There are only two kinds of people: those who say to God, ‘Thy will be done,’ and those to whom God says, ‘All right, then, have it your way.’” - C.S. Lewis
Can you change your life in the snap of a finger...no.
But can you make the decision to change your life at the snap of a finger?... Yes.
I challenge you to snap your finger.
Reality always wins. You can either fight it and lose, or you can adjust your subjective feelings to reality and become a happier and more successful human being. Reconstructing society in a vain attempt to shield you from reality merely delays the inevitable.
It's hard to build a better future if we're still living in the past.
Forgive, heal, and look forward.
God has more for your future than you can imagine.