Don’t propose on my birthday, don’t propose on my graduation day, don’t propose on Valentine’s Day, don’t propose at someone else’s wedding...
Keep the proposal date a separate special day not be shared with other holidays/milestones
One thing about me there’s nothing sneaky or weird about how I move. If you cross a line with me, I’m doing one of three things: I’ll address it, I’ll distance myself, or I’ll cut off your access completely. My actions ain’t confusing, I’m straight up. It’s either yes or no, in or out.