Balik kerja pukul 7.
Makan, mandi, scroll phone,terlelap depan TV.
Dapur pun tak sempat kemas…
Esok repeat.
Bukan tak nak buat side income.
Tapi otak dah penat nak fikir bisnes apa nak start plus modal pun tak banyak…
If this is you, buka thread ni 🧵👇
Marriage isn’t about 50:50. It’s not about 100:0 either.
Yesterday I wasn’t feeling well. Husb bought us dinner from pasar malam and fed me medicine while I was in bed. He ironed the clothes for us and the kids, did the laundry and washed the dishes.
Today, he went to bed early. Just after Isyak, he dozed off. I could see how exhausted he was. So I took care of the rest of the house chores, ironing the clothes, doing the laundry and washing the dishes.
You see, yesterday, it was 30:70. And today, it’s 70:30. The ratio is never fixed. Sometimes it’s 55:45. Sometimes it’s 60:40. Depends on day. Sometimes it even got to 43.8:56.2
Marriage is about partnership. It’s about complementing and backing each other up. You can’t define it by an exact ratio. As long as both respect each other, understand partnership and responsibility, they’ll make it, insyaAllah.
And its not an achievement. Its called being adult. Why do women like this think that ada reja, ada keta - benda tu achievement?
Pandai masak? Thats basic survival skill. You should know how to, as a person.