One thing I’m learning as a sex therapist in training is that your BDSM personality will expose your real relationship needs.
Being a brat, a sub, a rope bunny, prey, a switch, a masochist it’s not “just kinky.” It’s your attachment style with the lights dimmed.
Brats want someone who can match them.
Subs need consistent leadership, not control.
Rope bunnies crave safety and structure.
Prey needs clear pursuit.
Switches need flexibility.
Masochists want intensity and presence. 1/2
I’m here for the FinDoms (and FemDoms ofc!) with disabilities….The baddies with invisible illnesses & underdiagnosed conditions. Because we belong within this community too, damn it!!
@z0mbiestitches Yes maam I feel you. Easier than working for a company that hates you though and is willing to dispose of you at a moments notice. Plus if you’re into it, you never work a day in your life doing something you love.