@boowons Grief is a man in sad pajamas that you keep locked in a room because he's proof you used to love something. Set him free. Let him leave (or stay) if he has to. You have other proof. Setting him free is not a betrayal of your love. Healing: not a betrayal. Don't romanticize it.
can you tell me exactly how you feel about me in explicit & very specific detail & your first impression of me & what you think my vibe & personality is & my best & worst qualities & what kind of person u think i am & the exact moment u decided u like me