im literally not meant for nonchalant things i need expression!! i need to be told how much someone cares for me!! i need heart on the sleeve full of love in their eyes cant wait to see me kind of expressiveness
A common response to childhood trauma is to never feel powerless again.
We try to always be in control come across as highly confident.
Most People Aren't Aware Of This:
girls will be like idk why im so unproductive recently and then you ask whats going on in their life and they list eight lifestopping crisis and then say 'yeah but i should be fine :/'
life actually gets better when you've reached that point of healing where you make conscious and intentional decisions in moments of high emotion. when you can finally sit back and really think, "what do I want to do in this moment?" thats real healing shit