The healer also needs healing. The planner also needs surprises. The giver also needs to receive. The thoughtful also needs to be thought of. The considerate also needs to be considered.
Y’all please don’t let people treat you like less than you deserve, you deserve somebody that loves you for every part of you.. not just some of the time and not just when it’s convenient for them.. you deserve somebody that loves the heck outta you and treats you with respect