Nobody talks about the stage of grief where you can't even talk about it to anyone anymore because everyone expects you to be getting over it but it still runs through your mind everyday.
Someone once told me, 'Everyone comes into a relationship with baggage. You will either trip over each other's bags or you will unpack them together,' and that hit me. The right person will sit down and help you unpack, no matter how long it takes.
It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out, feed you, do nice things for you, and compliment you.
You should never have to teach someone to do that.