i’ve had “subs” who literally never send unless they’re told to because they “like being commanded.”
you realize that doesn’t make you submissive, right? it makes you self-serving.
if the only way you ever please your domme is by waiting for instructions, you’re creating labor for her, not serving her.
submission is anticipating her wants and needs and taking initiative to please her.
following orders is obedience.
submission is much more than that.
I think men who ask to meet me are either on dr*gs or have a rejection fetish because if you haven’t spent tens of thousands on tributes to me, you’ll never have a chance to meet me (in case you did I’d meet you for coffee/dinner). I don’t do any sessions, I can’t imagine meeting a random perv and performing for him. I’d only play with a sub if there’s chemistry and that’s your responsibility to create this chemistry by sending me money without expecting anything in return — it’s the only way to make me like you and to want to own you.
some guys come with the wrong intention and then blame us they’re not fully fulfilled.
no it’s all on you. the universe can’t give you anything back if your intention was just an orgasm, right? you already got that.
when a men spoils a woman he’s not just stupidly giving to her. he is feeding life force back into the universe through the divine feminine frequency of a woman who is in her joy.
men who spoil women are the fastest manifestors. you can tell exactly how a man manifests his life simply by how he treats the woman he’s interested in.
idc if you’ve sent me thousands before…the second you start acting like a lurker you become one so i’ll start treating you just like every other useless man on here