May Fields

I'm open to disagreement and discussions, I don't need circlejerks.

[May Fields @AllLilacFields]

@BarryHallsack2 @privatebirb You do realise ppl don't have to be friends? Some relationships just don't work because of compatibility issues, without anyone being the "bad" one or the one who is "at fault". It is not a tragedy to let relationships that don't work go

[May Fields @AllLilacFields]

@missmkirk @privatebirb No, that is the basic message of the post she cited

[Sao @sao_nyan_22]

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[May Fields @AllLilacFields]

@sao_nyan_22 Painting the dream, one plant to care for that carries all kinds of fruit ❤️ also beautiful design and colors for summer

[May Fields @AllLilacFields]

@_MaiReads_ no hard feelings if they don't want to deal with that, sometimes ppl just aren't compatible, but why tf villify me?

[May Fields @AllLilacFields]

@_MaiReads_ narrative where they are the victim of my "lack of respect", slander me and don't even attempt to consider that maybe I am already trying, that I'm struggling, that sometimes I fail, and that on my side this isn't about them, it's me trying to figure out how to manage, and it's*

[May Fields @AllLilacFields]

@_MaiReads_ And I genuinely feel for that (no sarcasm, I'm nd too and I know the pain), and I too struggle with the urge to repeat behaviour and ways of speaking that I have been subjected to, but I think the best way as a hurt person to deal with that hurt is to try and not give it to othrs

[May Fields @AllLilacFields]

@_MaiReads_ Yes, sure, but that wasn't the original argument. The argument that the post you cited was talking about accused adhd people of basically not respecting other ppls time and being narcissists.

[May Fields @AllLilacFields]

@_MaiReads_ misery.

[May Fields @AllLilacFields]

@_MaiReads_ , why i don't, when i can afford it, stress about paying me back when ppl are in financial trouble, why I don't raise a stink about ppl being late (especially not when it's not work related and all I gotta do is chill an hour on my phone somewhere). There is no reason to add to*

[May Fields @AllLilacFields]

@_MaiReads_ doesn't help.

[May Fields @AllLilacFields]

@_MaiReads_ and considering how much shit she is already getting, adding to that shit is just unnecessary. Maybe you mean well, trying to encourage ppl to not give up, but i assume most ppl with adhd have already gotten the "get your shit together" treatment plenty of times and it just *

[May Fields @AllLilacFields]

@_MaiReads_ *too instead of either

[May Fields @AllLilacFields]

@_MaiReads_ That completely misses the point and isn't a good argument either. Neurodivergence is a wide range, ppl have comorbidities, and different circumstances. Shitting on other neurodivergent ppl is a kind of shit thing to do, either. Also, I think it's very likely that the person*

[May Fields @AllLilacFields]

@_MaiReads_ You cited just vents their frustrations, because they are trying and they still get shit when they fail and 0 empathy from others and then have to read accusations like the one they cited online.