If I’m going to get married and you want me to have your children, I need to be ridiculously spoiled, extremely loved, and put on a pedestal because a ring is not enough.
A lot of y'all are blind to the fact that YOU are the catch.
Your loyalty, your heart, your beauty, your love.
None of it is regular.
Once you realize how rare you are, you'll stop entertaining people who treat you like you're average.
Someone can stay around but it doesn’t mean you’re on the same page and want the same end goal. And you’re at a dead end wandering aimlessly until you get strong enough to be honest with yourself about what you want, what you’re never going to get and how much of your time you’re wasting waiting on this person.
unfortunately, i don't like nonchalant men. Be dominant, check on me. Be affectionate. Tell me im gorgeous. Plan dates. Buy me flowers. Be absolutely obsessed with me.