Akhirnya memutuskan hapus payment cc di grab gojek dan shopee. Less than sebulan bocor 4jt. Emang belanja tuh hrs dari rekening biar ada guilt trip nya
She just reverse-engineered the psychology of every high-performer who can't turn off.
You can't tell a firefighter to nap. Their entire identity is built around staying alert when everyone else is asleep. Telling them to rest triggers the same resistance as telling them to quit.
"Let's watch a show" works because it reframes rest as togetherness. He didn't agree to sleep. He agreed to spend time with her. Sleep was just the side effect.
The best people in your life don't argue with your stubbornness. They just build a trap you walk into willingly.
Diceritain seorang C-Level soal uniknya orang Indonesia.
Beliau suka becanda. Misal ketika team izin ke toilet dia becandain dengan jawab “no you cannot”.
Kolega India 🇮🇳 jawab “hahaha funny”, lanjut ke toilet.
Kolega Spanyol 🇪🇸 jawab “no thanks”, lanjut ke toilet.
Kolega Indo 🇮🇩 engga jawab apa-apa. Diem dan beneran gajadi ke toilet. Lalu canggung satu ruangan sampe bilang “Im joking, ofcourse you can”
Yang bikin dia culture shock adalah betapa tingginya tingkat obedience orang Indonesia. Seakan consent di sini tuh manufactured through power relations.
Padahal orang Indonesia itu cemerlang dan kinerjanya luar biasa, tapi begitu atasan bilang X meskipun itu gak sesuai prinsip atau pemahaman, mereka akan tetap taat.
Kenapa ya dan gimana cara kita unlearn karakter ini?
wrk! CW // Gaji
nabung segini udah cukup belum ya? aku cewe dan bkn 🥪 gen, aku suka bantu adek aku beliin perlengkapan kuliahnya dan patungan sm papaku. papaku gaminta tp aku mau bantu
Mati lampu 8 jam, rata sampe jalan raya macet karna traffic light mati. Mall dan tempat makan yg punya genset :) nunggu burger 2 jam pdhl bkn bln Desember