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Dear Young Nigerians,
One lesson from the 2023 elections, particularly in Lagos, should never be forgotten.
In the period following the presidential election and leading up to the governorship election, we witnessed a troubling shift in public discourse. Conversations that should have focused on competence, governance, development, and the future of our nation were gradually diverted towards tribal sentiments, ethnic divisions, and unnecessary suspicion among citizens.
Many sincere and well-meaning Nigerians participated in these conversations without realising that they were being drawn into narratives carefully designed by others.
Throughout history, whenever politicians find it difficult to compete on ideas, performance, character, or vision, some resort to exploiting the fault lines of ethnicity, religion, and identity. Their calculation is simple: a divided people are easier to manipulate than a united people.
Today, I see similar efforts emerging again, sometimes in more subtle and sophisticated ways. Narratives are planted, amplified, and circulated, often by individuals who genuinely believe they are defending a worthy cause, without recognizing the broader agenda behind such campaigns.
Let me state clearly that Pastor Enoch Adeboye remains one of the foremost fathers of faith in our nation. For decades, he has consistently preached the virtues of peace, prayer, love, reconciliation, and national unity. Even when faced with provocation, his response has always reflected humility, restraint, wisdom, and grace.
At 84 years of age, it would be unfair for young and able-bodied Nigerians to transfer to him responsibilities that properly belong to them. The task of building a better Nigeria rests primarily on the shoulders of the younger generation. It is their duty to lead the conversations, champion the reforms, and drive the positive change our nation urgently requires.
We must be careful not to become instruments in the hands of those who secretly nurture division while publicly preaching unity. In most cases, their target is not the individual being attacked; instead, it is the person who is attacking. Their real objective is to weaken the bonds that hold us together as one people and one nation.
I therefore urge all young Nigerians: do not allow anyone to recruit you into hatred. Do not allow anyone to weaponise your ethnicity, your faith, or your admiration for respected leaders.
Question every narrative. Verify every claim. Follow the facts. Resist manipulation.
The Nigeria of our dreams can only be built by citizens who refuse to be divided, who choose unity over hatred, and who place our collective future above narrow interests.
A New Nigeria is POssible. -PO
@jon_d_doe The crux of the message lies between time 6:15 to 6:50
Men and their ego will want to seek immediate defence by holding on to her father being a pensions board high officer...but as she said in the quoted time above, in your own nuclear family and capacity, are you doing it well?
@TinoLoves2Code Years back a man had 6 girls from his first and known wife
She was pregnant with the 6th when it got out that he has gotten another woman pregnant. The woman gave birth to a boy and he abandoned first wife. Only for 4 more girls to come after and the only boy has down syndrome.
@YouCanCallMeOma@Maazijnr Lol.
We're done dear.
6years ago.
A single birth, followed by triplets 3years later.....4.
I wonder why the poster clearly seeing the beautiful twin girls still asking questions that shouldn't be his business.
@jon_d_doe@Biebele01 come and see more evidence of where Agba is answering "sweetie" 🤣🤣🤣
Her side of the conversation shows a woman who is confident in her self worth. No much dragging, no plenty shalaye. And subtle commanding leadership...... you don't dare cross that 3rd bottle.
@jon_d_doe It's important that she speaks out.
Let him know what she saw first, because if she pretends she didn't see anything, that's when the worst possible ideas for dealing with him will enter her mind.
No matter what though, their marriage dynamic is forever changed.
@jon_d_doe A bad spouse can be had.
Bad in-laws cannot be kept.
This is a literal translation of a Yoruba adage regarding marriage.
When the trouble comes from the mum, wisdom can navigate it. But if it's from the father, cut your losses early enough for it's a broken bottle already.
@jon_d_doe Under 25 audience
Please take note of the use of MAY and WILL.
Hope you passed your comprehension tests in school before you will want to rant over this tweet.
@BlessingCh73232 Temperaments and individual personalities.
He did you both a favour by breaking up.
If the lady is naturally forgetful and he's obsessive about how he wants his space to be at all times, there's no way the relationship can work.
Nigerians in the UK 🇳🇬🇬🇧
Drop a picture of the most popular monument or landmark in your city… but NO name, no caption, nothing. Just the pure image.
Let’s see who’s really where! Guess in the replies 👀
#NigeriansInUK#NaijaInUK#UKNaija#NaijaDiaspora
Where are all the people making noise about cyberbullying? Now, this is what real bullying looks like. This is typically what a slightly richer, more powerful person can do to another person and get away with it in Nigeria. The reckless driver did not pronounce her children dead, her actions actually killed them. You see the difference?
Now, you see that energy you people are using to fight for a multi-millionaire celebrity family because of a mean tweet about their daughter, this is where it is needed. This woman deserves justice.
This is why the only objective thing to do in a country like Nigeria is always to protect the poor against the rich in every circumstance, because if this were done to a rich person, I promise you the perpetrator would have been dealt with by now, and the victim wouldn't be online crying for justice.
This is what poor people go through regularly in Nigeria, but the priority of supposed educated Nigerians is to support laws designed to protect the emotions of rich people. Very weird society, I swear.