Soy amable, abierto, no tengo miedo en expresar mis emociones, tengo recursos, finca, muchas ventajas en mi favor. PORQUE NO HAY NADIE QUE ME QUIERE? O mas bien está el apego de trauma hablando?
Gracias.
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@Belgicapelicot_ Lo siento mucho .Mi ex era así, al final me he dado cuenta que era una narcisista vulnerable encubierta. Mirad hacia dentro por favor y pregúntate "estoy haciendo daños emocionales a los demás y externalizando mis emociones negativas hacia los demás o mi pareja?. "
How a Narcissist Apologizes
A narcissist does not apologize like a normal person. Their apologies are not about taking responsibility. They are about ending the conversation, shifting blame, or maintaining control. Here is what their apologies actually sound like.
The "Sorry You Feel That Way" Apology
They say, "sorry you feel that way." This is not an apology. It is dismissal. They are not admitting fault. They are blaming your feelings for being too sensitive.
The "But" Apology
"Sorry, but you made me angry." "Sorry, but you provoked me." The word "but" cancels everything before it. They are not sorry. They are justifying.
The Dramatic Over Apology
They cry, wail, and carry on. "I am the worst person ever. I do not deserve you." This is not humility. It is manipulation. They want you to comfort them instead of holding them accountable.
The Vague Apology
"Sorry for whatever I did." This is empty. They are not acknowledging the specific harm. They are avoiding specifics so they do not have to change.
The Non Apology Actions
They buy gifts. They act extra sweet. They do chores. But they never say the words "I was wrong." They expect you to accept the behaviour as an apology. It is not. It is a bribe.
The Forced Apology
When cornered, they mutter a quick "sorry" with no eye contact and no emotion. They say it just to end the conversation. They do not mean it. And they will do the same thing again tomorrow.
What a Real Apology Looks Like:
A real apology is specific. "I did this specific thing. It hurt you. I was wrong."
A real apology has no "but." No excuses. No blame shifting.
A real apology leads to changed behaviour. Not just words.
If you are constantly accepting fake apologies, you are not being loved. You are being managed.
Remember: The victim of narcissist abuse is usually the one “crashing out” and visually upset. The abuser is the one keeping composure and telling everyone else “See, look at how crazy they are.”
Quédate con ésto.... ¡ Booom ! el número 5. Deja de ser el cajero automático de nadie. Ni hombres, ni mujeres.
Si, son trepas, y saben muy bien cómo enredarte. Para cuando te quieras dar cuenta, tu hucha anda bajo mínimos. Son expertos en parasitar..
We will not forget: Trump started his illegal, genocidal war against the Iranian people by slaughtering these innocent children, their teachers, and elementary school staff in Minab. He, his allies, and accomplices will always be the enemy.