There are two kinds of silence.
You’re listening, observing, regulating your emotions, trying to understand before reacting.
- mature silence.
The second is the silence that comes from thinking, “If I speak, they’ll misunderstand me.”
That silence can slowly make you invisible.
When the future matters deeply to us, and mind tries to predict it before there is enough evidence. It fills in the blanks because uncertainty is uncomfortable.
But a leader doesn’t eliminate uncertainty. A leader learns to act well despite it.
I am responsible for providing clarity, support, feedback, and accountability.
I am not responsible for another adult’s willingness to grow.
#lessonsfromleadership
Sleep is the real brain. Do not skip minimum of 6 hours of sleep before any important days. You cannot. You just can’t fight missed sleep, it will make special appearances as nervousness, clumsiness, drowsiness, tiredness. And then you’ll stand there and resist the urge to cry.
Some people are fortunate they get guidance and get a headstart. Some people are even fortunate they get divine intervention and godly guidance. Don’t need to feel bad or beg for anyone’s guidance, you will learn with th e hidayah Allah will put into your head when the time comes