According to psychology, the urge to immediately fix a partner’s or friend’s distress instead of just sitting with them in it isn't empathy; it is your own low frustration tolerance. When someone you love is hurting, and you instantly jump into problem-solving mode, offering unsolicited advice or trying to find a silver lining, you are often trying to soothe your own secondary anxiety. You aren't rescuing them from their pain; you are rescuing yourself from the discomfort of witnessing a vulnerability you don't know how to hold.
une fois j'ai mis cette chanson dans la voiture d'un pote qui deteste taylor swift, il a shazam au bout de 10 secondes et il a baissé discrètement son téléphone en tournant la tete vers la fenetre en mode "oh merde"😭😭
May 5th 2008 🥹
If you ever wonder why Taylor Swift has the massive fan base she has because you don’t think she’s talented, the human she is, the work she puts in, the time and love and care she puts into everything she does, and everyone she works with is exactly why. 💗
I find it kinda crazy people don't realize the sexism in the jokes about Taylor suing everyone and anyone who crosses her given that she's only ever sued someone once actually and it was a countersuit for $1 of a man who sexually assaulted her.
How do you attract more abundance?
Whenever you pay for something (a bill, a loan, simple things like coffee), always be grateful and thankful that you can afford such things. Don't say, "Oh, another expense." Instead, be grateful because it is proof that everything is provided for you.
the culture of thinking you’re too fat or too skinny to have sex is the reason why gen z is not having sex like you really thinking while i’m balls deep into you i would think your face is too asymmetrical for me or the stretch mark near your ass crack is too distracting?
Obsess. For f*ck sakes. You only get one life. Don’t screw it up by being normal. Go all in. Act like a psycho. Let people call you insane. Please. I beg you. Obsession is the path.
in a very real sense, we become the stories others tell about us. words actively shape us as much as they describe us
full essay on this: https://t.co/uAxa6LmLF8