Alyssa

The principle of life is simple~If you meet life with love and with a smile, you will always find love and something to smile about.

[Gandalv @Microinteracti1]

Robert Mueller died last night.

He was 81 years old. He had a wife who loved him for sixty years. He had two daughters, one of whom he met for the first time in Hawaii, in 1969, on a few hours of military leave, before he got back on the plane and returned to Vietnam. He had grandchildren. He had a faith he practiced quietly, without performance. He had, in the way of men who have seen real things and survived them, a quality that is increasingly rare and increasingly mocked in the country he spent his life serving.

He had integrity.

And tonight the President of the United States said good!

I have been sitting with that word for hours now. Good. One syllable. The thing you say when the coffee is hot or the traffic is moving. The thing a man who has never had to bury anyone, never had to sit in the specific silence of a room where someone is newly absent, reaches for when he wants the world to know he is satisfied. Good. The daughters are crying and the wife is alone in the house and good.

I want to speak directly to the Americans reading this. Not the political Americans. Just the human ones. The ones who have lost a father. The ones who know what it is to be in that first hour, when you keep forgetting and then remembering again, when ordinary objects become unbearable, when the world outside the window seems obscene in its indifference. I want to ask you, simply, to hold that feeling for a moment, and then to understand that the man you elected looked at it and typed a single word.

Good.

This is not a country having a bad day. I need you to understand that. Countries have bad days. Elections go wrong. Leaders disappoint. Institutions bend. But there is a different thing, a rarer and more terrible thing, that happens when the moral center of a place simply gives way. Not dramatically. Not with a single catastrophic event. But quietly, in increments, until one evening a president celebrates the death of an old man whose family is still warm with grief, and enough people find it acceptable that it becomes the weather. Just the weather.

That is what is happening. That is what has happened.

The world knows. From Tokyo to Oslo, from London to Buenos Aires, people are not angry at America tonight. Anger would mean there was still something to fight for, some remaining faith to be betrayed. What I see, in the reactions from everywhere that is not here, is something older and sadder than anger. It is the look people get when they have waited a long time for someone they love to find their way back, and have finally understood that they are not coming.

America is being grieved. Past tense, almost. The idea of it. The thing it represented to people who had nothing else to believe in, who came here with everything they owned in a single bag because they had heard, somehow, across an ocean, that this was the place where decency was written into the walls. That idea is not resting. It is not suspended. It is being buried, in real time, with 7,450 likes before dinner.

And the church said nothing.

Seventy million people have decided that this man, this specific man who has cheated everyone he has ever made a promise to, who has mocked the disabled and the dead and the grieving, who celebrated tonight while a family wept, is an instrument of God. The pastors who made that bargain did not just trade away their credibility. They traded away the thing that made them worth listening to in the first place. The cross they carry now is a costume. The faith they preach is a loyalty oath with scripture attached. When the history of American Christianity is written, this will be the chapter they skip at seminary.

Now I want to talk about the men who stand next to him.

Because this is the part that actually breaks my heart.

JD Vance is not a bad man. I have to say that, because it is true, and because the truth matters even now, especially now. Marco Rubio is not a bad man. Lindsey Graham is not a bad man. They are idiots, but not bad, as in BAD! These are men with mothers who raised them and children who love them and friends who remember who they were before all of this. They are not monsters. Monsters are simple. Monsters do not cost you anything emotionally because there is nothing in them to mourn.

These men are something more painful than monsters.

They are men who knew better, and know better still, and will get up tomorrow and do it again.

Every small compromise they made had a reason. Every moment they looked the other way had a justification that sounded, at the time, almost reasonable. And now they have arrived here, at a place where a president celebrates the death of an old man and they will find a way, on television, to say nothing that means anything, and they will go home to houses where children who carry their name are waiting, and they will say goodnight, and they will say nothing.

Their oldest friends are watching. The ones who knew Rubio when he still believed in something. Who knew Graham when he said, out loud, on the record, that this exact man would destroy the Republican Party and deserve it. Who sat next to Vance and thought here is someone worth knowing. Those friends are not angry tonight. They moved through anger a long time ago. What they feel now is the quiet, irrecoverable sadness of watching someone disappear while still being present. Of watching a person they loved choose, again and again, to become less.

That is what cowardice costs. Not the coward. The people who loved him.

And in the comments tonight, the followers celebrate. People who ten years ago brought casseroles to grieving neighbours. Who stood in the rain at gravesides and meant the words they said. Who told their children that we do not speak ill of the dead because the dead were someone's beloved. Those people are tonight typing gleeful things about a man whose daughters are not yet done crying. And they feel clean doing it. Righteous. Because somewhere along the way the thing they were given in exchange for their decency was the feeling of belonging to something, and that feeling is very hard to give up even when you can no longer remember what you gave for it.

When Trump is gone, they will still be here.

Standing in the silence where the noise used to be. Without the permission the crowd gave them. Without the pastor who told them their cruelty was holy. They will be alone with what they said and what they cheered and what they chose to become, and there will be no one left to tell them it was righteous.

That morning is coming.

Robert Mueller flew across the Pacific on military leave to hold his newborn daughter for a few hours before returning to the war. He came home. He buried his dead with honour. He served presidents of both parties because he understood that the institution was larger than any one man. He told his grandchildren that a lie is the worst thing a person can do, that a reputation once lost cannot be recovered, and he lived that, every day, in the quiet and unglamorous way of people who actually believe what they say.

He was the kind of American the world used to point to when it needed to believe the story was true.

He died last night. His wife is alone in their house in Georgetown. His daughters are learning what the world is without him in it. And somewhere in the particular hush that falls over a family in the first hours of loss, the most powerful man and the biggest loser on earth sent a message to say he was glad.

The world that loved what America was supposed to be is grieving tonight. Not for Robert Mueller only. For the country that produced him and then became this. For the distance between what was promised and what was delivered. For the suspicion, growing quieter and more certain with each passing month, that the America people believed in was always partly a story, and the story is over now, and there is nothing yet to replace it.

That is all it needed to be.

A man died. His family is broken open with grief.

That is all it needed to be.

Instead the President said good.

And the country that once stood for something looked away 🇺🇸

Gandalv / @Microinteracti1

[Alyssa @alymdc14]

Buff guy Gingrich’s B huh

[Governor Kathy Hochul @GovKathyHochul]

Seth’s license plate is a public service.

[Alyssa @alymdc14]

@EggerDC Same!

[Spencer Althouse @SpencerAlthouse]

Harvey Fierstein – through tears – just gave an all-timer kind of acceptance speech while accepting his Lifetime Tony Award

"There is nothing quite like bathing in the applause of a curtain call, but when I bow, I bow to the audience...with gratitude, knowing that without them I might as well be lip-syncing showtunes in my bedroom mirror. And so I dedicate this award to the people in the dark."

[Billy Binion @billybinion]

Here is your yearly reminder that Whitney Houston sang the best ever rendition of the National Anthem, and it will never be topped. We should play this video before every Super Bowl. Thank you.

[Karly Kingsley @karlykingsley]

🧵 If you’re applauding the abolishment of the Department of Education, you need to do a little research. You have ZERO clue what the DOE actually does.

Here’s a reality check on what the Department of Education actually does:
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[Alyssa @alymdc14]

@jim1800flowers - January 2nd update - 9th promised delivery date come and gone. No delivery, Order date - 11/29 . Never had such a disastrous customer service experience with a company in my life.

[Alyssa @alymdc14]

@jim1800flowers Made my 21st call to you company in 12 days.Over 24+hrs on calls.Still no orders.Rep just said my order was cancelled b/c I didn’t respond to calls that items were sold out,which is a blatant lie.Have never experienced anything like this from a company in my life

[Alyssa @alymdc14]

@jim1800flowers @Wolfermans Oh - on chat #11 yesterday when I noticed the rep forgot to add my gift messages to 3x replaced,11 day late orders,Ramon on the chat told me “I should’ve” added my gift messages when I ordered. I did do that on 11/29, but I thanked Ramon for his rudeness&lack of professionalism

[Alyssa @alymdc14]

@jim1800flowers One of your family of brands.First told yes and then told just kidding you’re stuck with @Wolfermans

[Delta @Delta]

Every time Jimmy Carter flew Delta, he shook hands with each person on the plane. Because that's who he was. Someone who treated people as people.

[Alyssa @alymdc14]

Insult to injury-longtime customer-and-ur companies continue to send daily emails soliciting sales when you can’t deliver on the ones already made. @jim1800flowers this is a horrendous way to treat people.

[Alyssa @alymdc14]

Friends&family w/o https://t.co/2aIDZzRPme own 83 mother didn’t get her gift(breakfast for Xmas).4 promised delivery dates.Still nothing.Literally the worst customer service https://t.co/N64W88Sd15 one https://t.co/d5dqEHq9LV did take my money a month ago.

[Alyssa @alymdc14]

@jim1800flowers @LinkedIn @Wolfermans Have tried everything to get my family & friends their gifts.Promised 12/19,then 12/20,12/22,then today.Six gift recipients w/nothing. 17+ hrs on the phone! @jim1800flowers what kind of company does that. You happily took my money almost a month ago! It’s Christmas!!!

[Alyssa @alymdc14]

@jim1800flowers @LinkedIn 18 customer service calls. 17+ hrs on the phone. Orders placed 11/29 @Wolfermans Promised orders, replacement orders,can’t find your order, sold out items they don’t tell you https://t.co/sj9Io5EDFc’s been the finest example of business malpractice. Disgusting

[Alyssa @alymdc14]

@Wolfermans supervisor said, “we can be.” Maybe an accidental response but the only honest thing that’s come out of anyone’s mouth. This has been the finest example of business malpractice. It’s Christmas and they could care less. Six orders not delivered Disgusting

[Alyssa @alymdc14]

@Wolfermans 18 customer service calls. 17+ hours on the phone. Orders placed 11/29. Promised orders, replacement orders, can’t find your order, sold out items they don’t tell you about. On my 18th call, I just said, “I had no idea a business could be this horribly bad,” and the alleged