One thing nobody tells you about adulthood is how fun it is to become your own person. One day you randomly start liking jazz, olive green, expensive dark chocolate, documentaries about volcanoes, weird lamps, sparkling water, books about loneliness in Tokyo, silver jewelry and quiet cafés. Your personality keeps unfolding forever if you let it.
As I become more comfortable with the reality of how amazing I am it helps me understand people’s weird and bad behaviour isn’t about me AT ALL. Me I’m amazing. YOU are the problem. It was never me
Don’t even let anyone gaslight you into thinking intellectual mismatch is not a thing in romantic relationships. It's not even about formal degrees or booksmarts. It shows up in things like curiousity, conversational depth, imagination, openness, and worldviews.
The single most important thing a black man can contribute to the black community is staying committed to one woman and looking after his kids. This is far more consequential than any other form of activism or advocacy.
Everyone felt sad for the penguin walking alone and the monkey rejected by his mother. But this video is far more heartbreaking, yet it didn’t receive the same attention.
#MISSINGCHILD 12-year-old Tianna was last seen in Croydon on Friday 20 March.
She has a slim build and medium-dark skin tone. If you have any information regarding her disappearance please contact 999 or the number below: 07391107450
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