Normal people support a football team because they like certain players. But people like Rana Ayyub support Egypt only because it is a Islamic country. 😭😭🤣
Now that my daughter’s birthday is coming to an end and I am back home, I can respond to this properly.
The problem with woke people (and they come in all shades of opinion) is that they must slot, stereotype and label people in coloured chambers they have created. No diversions are acceptable to them.
Everything, they feel, fits definitions of the world that they have conjured. I am done with such people a long time ago.
In one tweet that was a response to my daughter’s wish that I make breakfast on her birthday, this lady @devinamehra
1. Took my statement full of plain humility (“I don’t know how to make anything”) and slotted me in her stereotypes;
2. For effect, she added by herself that I don’t know what is found where in my kitchen)
3. She quickly slotted me among “entitled Indian men”
4. She also assumed that I am among those who share “oppressed by wife” jokes on WhatsApp.
What nonsense.
I know that my cooking stories since my school days are a joke in my family. I am the laughing stock for once having made pulao for guests as a student without washing or peeling the potatoes (I know, I know 🙄). But I am sorry Madam, I don’t fit the stereotype you are throwing at me.
Gender roles were reversed very early in our family.
Our mother used to spend time running our village school in rural UP and our father brought up me and my brother in Nainital. He used to cook every day and we used to assist him with anything from kneading flour to cleaning utensils. No big deal. Hundreds of millions do it.
But I am not a foodie. I don’t cook. My wife doesn’t. For decades, my late mother didn’t. Did we all know how to cook? Of course! Did we cook every day or even regularly? No!
We were busy with other things. Our family has been madly driven with trying to do socially productive missions to a degree that it seems foolish now. Food was cooked by those who were much better at it than us.
“You don’t cook? You are privileged!” Is that your moral judgement about me? Of course I am privileged. The women and men in our family did not have to go through cooking as a job, as millions of homemakers sadly do, as a compulsion — as against cooking as a passion. But it’s a privilege that helped us achieve more things in life for us and mostly for others.
You know nothing about my life, my views on women and their journeys, thousands of our stories about strong inspiring women characters, my world view — and I don’t give a damn about you or people who judge people on the basis of their cooking skills or your own woke benchmarks.
Don’t slot me into your narrative and your stereotypes, because I have for years through our stories fought the very idea of women being confined to kitchens and unable to achieve self-actualisation.
But I am not one of those men from the WhatsApp groups you slotted me in. Don’t you bring your stereotypes anywhere near me.
In a laissez-faire dating market with no societal bounds of religion, caste, morality, purity, a man especially a high status athelete man will always get access to beautiful women because they want such men.
Sexual revolution benefits these men the most.
@doctorjhatkaa@poppppppypetals you're calling me incel aur me abhi randi bol du to rone lagegi
1% doesn't mean they don't need the law.
There are 30-40 cr couple in india, the laws needed to protect those men.
@doctorjhatkaa@poppppppypetals In dowry cases, conviction rate is meagre 15% that means rest are fake or no proof.
And dowry should be legal if doesn't voluntarily demands her share in her father's property just like son (which is legal btw)
@doctorjhatkaa@poppppppypetals false dowry cases are so prevalent, supreme court has to acknowledge the misuse of Section 498A to harrass men their relatives, most men take loans to pay for alimony and due to highly efficient judicial system of our country and prejudice against men in divorce cases...
Just a reminder that they made this a pinned post for mens mental health month. And no where on any UN channel, did they mention mens mental health month. That's how nasty these twats are.
@UN_Women If you want proof the UN is the one that is corrupted by hateful misandrist and feminist propaganda.
9 years ago.
Look at the difference in tone.
Hateful feminist bigots projecting.
Time to cut them out of our institutions like the tumor they are.
https://t.co/6zN4J8dqFU
OH SHUT THE FUCK UP. You women are so worthless and full of hate.
You are the problem.
You are quiet when your UN men rape. Thats the “manosphere” thats scary!
Most men are good. Unless yourr importing 3rd world filth which you routinely vote for.
You want women raped. You want children raped. You argue in favor of weak laws and weak borders.
You can gauge a society's true masculinity , or how profoundly ccvked it has become , by how eagerly they blur the faces of those girls and women who sleep with men from enemy tribes.