Self-control is strength. Calmness is mastery. You have to get to a point where your mood doesn’t shift based on the insignificant actions of someone else. Don't allow others to control the direction of your life. Don't allow your emotions to overpower your intelligence.
The real glo up is when we stop waiting to turn into some "perfect" hypothetical version of ourselves and consciously enjoy being who we are in the present moment 🌟