Refresh
If life has hardened you and moved you away from the Source, this (The heart) is the only thing that can refresh you. Your spiritual process, as practiced in Sahaj Marg, has this objective - to make you focus on the essentials.
When the heart becomes generous, self-protection loosens. The need to justify, defend, or preserve one's identity fades, and in that openness, the doer recedes. Forgiveness is no longer something you perform; it is something that happens through you.
@kamleshdaaji I was deeply drowned in this grace. Thank you my beloved Daaji keeping all of us very well connected always. Your love is always radiating in this universe.