The “Cape Town” influence was very evident in how that Jazz group and co handled the whole situation
we’re no longer in student plenaries okes— just be decent human beings and stop trying to intellectualise udoti.
What’s heartbreaking about all of this is that so many of us genuinely believed these scenes were building softer, safer, more thoughtful ways of being. That the music, the politics, the culture, the community - all of it meant something deeper.
Dear ladies never forget that: The same world that shames me for being a single mother also shames you for not being a mother and shames another woman for having too many children..lt shames one woman for having a child at the age of 19 because she's too young but also shames another for having at 36 because she's too old..lt shames a woman who marries young as well as the one who marries old..It shames women who don't have beautiful bodies and shames those who go under the knife to get the bodies. This world shames all women, not a single one of us is spared, not a single one. So love and make yourselves happy.
If I don’t post about my achievements, please don’t post to congratulate me / reveal my achievement on my behalf. Most times, there's a reason why i didn't bring it to social media.
Don’t be fooled by social media. In real life, our peers are paying off debts, studying, submitting business proposals, buying property, taking courses, changing friends, making room for new hobbies, seeing therapists, hiring life coaches, applying for jobs, and praying often.