I love my youngest sister so much but she is the most stressful sibling 😭 idk if it’s bc I’m an adult & she’s a teenager so i view things differently now or what.
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As happy as I am that I seem to be the reliable oldest sister; it’s very hard to navigate how to let her know that I’m deadass vs being gentle & having that open communication so she feels comfortable to keep coming to me.