you don’t realize how much your environment affects your mental state until you finally spend time somewhere that feels calm and your body stops feeling tense for once
Yesterday was Jhene Aiko’s brother birthday and he passed away 12yrs ago. She made a comment that said “ no one knows how triggering it is to post the same old pictures bc there will never be any new ones” and now im crying bc I felt that wholeheartedly 🥺💔 and this is what they mean when they say grieving is tricky bc it truly does sneak up on you at any given moment
If you have kids under the age of 6 and fun plans this summer, DO NOT tell them about the fun plans until you are literally arriving at the plans. Pulling up to the gate.