comparison kills creativity. there is room for you. nobody can do it with your voice, with your experience or with your insight. you have a seat at the table, because you matter.
let go of these things:
• feeling guilty when you say no
• other people’s expectations
• people who are mean
• feeling unworthy
• rude comments
• other people’s opinions
• choosing people who don’t choose you
• saying yes when you want to say no
Healthy relationships don't feel like "fairy tales." They're built through uncomfortable conversations, emotional vulnerability, and grace for each other's humanness. Healthy relationships take work and a willingness to step outside of our ego.
monday reminder : make people feel good, but remember you are a person too. give yourself reasons to smile and feel good. give yourself kindness and understanding. you deserve it.
December 21st. Winter solstice. The darkest day of the year.
Every day of the fall has been getting darker towards today.
But tomorrow?
It starts getting lighter. In tiny tiny increments. But light is coming. It doesn't get any darker than today.
Light is coming.
So far I’ve spilled an entire cup of coffee down my dresser & dropped my phone into a crockpot full of water... all before 8am. How’s your Saturday going? 🙉