To my 25 - 35 year olds, you have reached the age where people around you are starting to give up on themselves because they think it’s too late. don’t let that energy rub off on you. it’s not too late.
The best skill I’ve developed is figuring out how to stay in a good mood even when there’s hella reasons I could be in a bad one. When you start doing this you don’t have bad days you have bad moments in a good day.
discernment is real. you can hear stuff that’s not being said. you can feel things and don’t even have to be in close proximity. You can detect a lie from miles away. sometimes it feels like a blessing and a curse because that third eye is awake.
i saw a girl on tiktok who said “accountability is so important to me. nobody’s perfect, but don’t try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match” felt this to the core.
breakups are ok. losing friends is ok. moving on is ok. healing is ok. saying no is ok. being alone is ok. what is NOT ok is staying somewhere where you don't feel happy, valued, loved or appreciated.