AMEELYA.

[Mumbi 🎀 @mumbi_wathika]

If there's one thing I've learnt this year, is that if you really want to do an activity/ go to an event or concert and you can't find anyone to do it with.... just do it alone, you are missing out on so many amazing experiences waiting for your schedules and interests to align.

[Elderly cynical Feminist @honeydropz999]

women just love to ignore and minimize how much our individual actions and decisions aids and legitimizes the system

It comes from a place of not wanting to take any personal accountability or loss, many women don't want to sacrifice anything in this fight

Wngmi

[Ama @amackieee]

Another e.g is rejecting societal pressures to look or behave in ways that appeal to the male gaze & instead embracing what feels authentic to you OR questioning narratives that glorify women’s sacrifices for men or frame women’s success only in relation to men. I could go on lol

[Ama @amackieee]

Decentering men also involves rethinking how much space and influence men have over your decisions, desires, and self-perception. It’s about shifting focus toward your own goals, growth, and fulfillment without constantly seeking male approval or validation.

[Ama @amackieee]

This thread was a bit disappointing because the concept of decentering men isn’t that hard to understand. Decentering men mainly means unlearning harmful patriarchal ideas, such as tying your worth and entire being to a man. The girls need to read more feminist theory sorry.

[taylor hunter @misstayhunter]

pouring into myself instead of into another man to fuel his career, brand, image, or ambitions >

[KEISHA @kashdoll]

Real hair vibes

[Mabintou @mabintou]

30 is such a sexy age. You only think it’s old when you’re under 23 because once you hit the trenches of your mid twenties your perspective changes.

[Jocelyn J. Fitzgerald MD @jjfitzgeraldMD]

Women have been collectively convinced that pregnancy is a health-neutral event and I am here to tell you that this is a tactic used to suppress freedom of informed choice.

[moonchild 🌒 @MrMouthAlmighty]

Knowing Tory will remained in jail regardless of whatever y’all tweet really is the victory.

[Diane Yap @RealDianeYap]

Women are opting out because they understand 90%+ of the work of parenthood will fall on them while “men” waste time watching sports or playing video games.

[KATI🦋 @TiiiKati]

Just say exactly what you want ladies. They’ll either leave you alone or do it. Either way win win🫶🏾

[The black Carrie Bradshaw🙃 @leveledupelites]

Mostly, women are depleted after relationships. They're exhausted, overweight, have less money, in emotional turmoil, etc.
The men are leaving happy.
Satisfied. Full. Money saved (thanks to you paying 50% of the bills).
IT'S CRAZY.
Women must learn how to win in relationships!

[The black Carrie Bradshaw🙃 @leveledupelites]

Women will give and pour and pour their all into a relationship and their partners while the men are taking and taking, leveling up, saving money, getting a maid, porn star, babies, the works. It doesn't balance out. They get all they need easily, & women are content w just them.

[The black Carrie Bradshaw🙃 @leveledupelites]

Noitce how men never say they wasted their years after a long relationship?
Men and women are in the same relationship, putting in the same time, yet only women mostly claim to have wasted time.
Why?
Men are ALWAYS leaving there with SOMETHING!
Most times it's Many THINGS!

[KAYA NOVA @thekayanova]

My favorite thing about following your dreams, is it reveals a whole bunch of side quest dreams you didn’t even plan to pursue. It’s almost like giving ourselves permission to dream big once, unlocks infinite potential for us to keep creating and expanding over and over again.

[Atarah 🌸 @Aderinsola_O]

Need to learn to start going places alone.

This constant need to go everywhere with a friend, because I’m worried I won’t know anyone at an event, is so limiting. Hate it here.